Did you know that compassion can relieve stress?

There is no doubt there has been plenty of reason for anxiety in the last few weeks. Though some have responded with panic and greed, it warms my heart to hear of the many acts of compassion happening in our communities. People are sewing masks for health care providers or going out of their way to assist others in need.

Did you know that compassion is one of our best resources in a time of crisis? And it is not just because of what we are doing for others. There is a growing body of research supporting the idea that compassion can have a positive effect on the compassion giver as well as the recipient. One of its many benefits is relieving stress by calming the amygdala.

Our stress response is our brain’s way of responding to a threat. The amygdala relays messages throughout our nervous system to get ready to fight or flee. Hearing news about those suffering from covid-19 and the strain on our health care system can activate this stress response. When the amygdala sends out a stress signal, our body will respond accordingly. Chronic stress can cause sleeplessness, irritability, digestive problems and a host of other physical and emotional symptoms.

But when we choose to respond with an act of compassion, we change the response. The brain still detects the threat, but when we respond by planning to help others, we engage our prefrontal cortex. This sends a message back to the amygdala that everything is going to be okay, we can handle this. When we have the resources to cope with danger, the brain sees it as less of a threat. Instead, acts of compassion can trigger our reward system causing dopamine pathways to fire.

Compassion is like a muscle, the more we practice the stronger it becomes. While most of us need to stay at home, instead of focusing on the news, think of what you can do to help.  It can be sewing masks for our essential workers, helping a neighbor, checking on the elderly or just practicing random acts of kindness to those in your household. Choose to respond with compassion for yourself and others and together we will get through this.

One thought on “Did you know that compassion can relieve stress?

  1. One of the downsides of living in an individualistic culture that stresses an ethic of independence and achievement is that we tend to blame ourselves (and others!) for any failures, rather than note the systems that surround us or adopt the patience to see things through. Did you know that poor children who believe in meritocracy are more likely to blame themselves for problems they can’t control?


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s